Arranging a funeral: practical steps and help with costs

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By CareCircle Family editorial team · Published 2026-09-26 · Last reviewed 2026-09-26 · 4 min read

Check whether the person left funeral wishes or a pre-paid plan, then decide whether to use a funeral director. If money is tight, you may be able to get help with funeral costs.

Check for wishes

Look through the person's papers or notes for funeral wishes. Recorded wishes help guide decisions, even though they aren't usually legally binding.

Choosing a funeral director

Ask for an itemised price list and compare. You don't have to use a funeral director, but most families do.

Help with costs

If you get certain benefits, you may be able to get a Funeral Expenses Payment (England, Wales and Northern Ireland) or Funeral Support Payment (Scotland).

Official guidance and further reading

Check these organisations for the latest rules and guidance for your location.

Frequently asked questions

Who pays for the funeral?
Funeral costs can usually be paid from the estate. Ask the bank whether it can release money directly to the funeral director.

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