Questions to ask your parents and grandparents
Part of Carer wellbeing
By CareCircle Family editorial team · Published 2026-09-26 · Last reviewed 2026-09-26 · 4 min read
Asking about childhood, first jobs, how they met their partner or what they're proud of can spark wonderful conversations. Let the person choose what they want to talk about.
Gentle starters
Where did you grow up? What was your first job? What music did you love at 20? Who made you laugh most?
Using photos
Old photographs are great prompts. Ask who is in them and what was happening.
Recording, if they'd like
A voice note keeps their words and voice. Always ask first.
Official guidance and further reading
Check these organisations for the latest rules and guidance for your location.
Frequently asked questions
- What if a question brings up sad memories?
- Follow their lead. It's fine to change the subject or stop.
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