Talking with a parent about their will and wishes
Part of Carer wellbeing
By CareCircle Family editorial team · Published 2026-09-26 · Last reviewed 2026-09-26 · 4 min read
Choose a calm moment, explain why you're asking, and let your parent lead. The aim is to understand what matters to them and where important papers are kept, not to decide for them.
Starting the conversation
Try linking it to something practical, such as 'I'd like to know where things are so I can help if you're ever unwell.'
What you might cover
Whether they have a will and where it's kept, who the executors are, whether they have an LPA, and any wishes about future care or a funeral.
Respecting their choices
It's their decision whether to share. Making a will or LPA is something they do themselves, often with a solicitor.
Official guidance and further reading
Check these organisations for the latest rules and guidance for your location.
Frequently asked questions
- Can I write a will for my parent?
- No — the will must be your parent's own. They can use a solicitor or will-writing service.
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